{"id":44,"date":"2005-07-27T02:01:37","date_gmt":"2005-07-27T07:01:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/english.sxu.edu\/bonadonna\/blog1\/?p=44"},"modified":"2005-11-28T04:23:19","modified_gmt":"2005-11-28T10:23:19","slug":"difficulty-toleranance-love-survival-fathers-and-sons-in-out-and-at-war","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/archives\/44","title":{"rendered":"Difficulty, Toleranance, Love, Survival: Fathers and Sons In, Out, and At War"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><html><br \/>\n<head><br \/>\n<title>Untitled Document<\/title><br \/>\n<meta http-equiv=\"Content-Type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=iso-8859-1\"><br \/>\n<\/meta><\/head><\/p>\n<p><body><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"+1\"><strong>&quot;Murderer&quot;<\/strong><\/font>: A fitting final utterance to Art<br \/>\n  Spiegelman&#8217;s novel, <em>Maus<\/em>. <\/p>\n<p>All the brutality one expects in a poignant presentation of the Holocaust and<br \/>\n  Nazi evil is present in this book, this &quot;remarkable work&quot; that Jules<br \/>\n  Feiffer describes as &quot;awesome in its conception and execution .&nbsp;.&nbsp;.<br \/>\n  at one and the same time a novel, a documentary, a memoir, and a comic book.&quot;<br \/>\n  As author\/mouse protagonist Spiegelman departs from his father at the end of<br \/>\n  Book I (subtitled &quot;My Father Bleeds History&quot;)&#8212;briefcase in one<br \/>\n  hand, cigarette in another, head down&#8212;he utters this depressing final<br \/>\n  statement, &quot;murderer.&quot; But he is not talking of the Nazis. His <em>father<\/em><br \/>\n  is the murderer, for Spiegelman has just learned that his father long ago, distracted<br \/>\n  by grief and confusion over his wife&#8217;s suicide, destroyed the journals she had<br \/>\n  kept of the war and Holocaust&#8212;journals she had intended to be a legacy<br \/>\n  to her son.<\/p>\n<p><!--readmore-->Thus we end on a mighty ambivalence: the son exploding\/apologizing, the father<br \/>\n  exploding\/apologizing, the father shaken at the son&#8217;s disrespect, the son pleading<br \/>\n  for information, the son, mollified and leaving in peace but uttering alone,<br \/>\n  again, and finally, the word, &quot;.&nbsp;.&nbsp;.&nbsp;murderer.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Of all the powerful dimensions of this work&#8212;its compelling stories, its historical<br \/>\n  sweep, its psychological layers&#8212;and of course all the issues of media, text,<br \/>\n  poetics, and rhetoric&#8212;it is the father-son relationship that I connect to foremost<br \/>\n  of all. Art&#8217;s relationship with his father is taut with mixed feelings: of annoyance,<br \/>\n  respect, understanding, awe, contempt, despair, pride, grief, and more. In this<br \/>\n  sense, the book is probably resonant to every child who had a father, or rather<br \/>\n  every child who had a father who was present as the child grew into adulthood.<br \/>\n  But there is something about the quality, or perhaps the actual content, of<br \/>\n  the relationship&#8212;both aspects, the positive and negative&#8212;that reminds me of<br \/>\n  my relationship with my father.<\/p>\n<p>My father could be a difficult man, but reading a book like <em>Maus<\/em> makes<br \/>\n  me look to the Depression, World War II, and all the other stresses of the twentieth<br \/>\n  century as causes of that difficulty. And I should be honest: some of the difficulty<br \/>\n  stems from my personality, with its inward ways, much like Spiegelman&#8217;s. For<br \/>\n  I need but look at my brothers, Joe in particular, who has written most lovingly<br \/>\n  and accurately of our father&#8217;s uniqueness. <a href=\"http:\/\/english.sxu.edu\/bonadonna\/joe-remembering.html\">Take<br \/>\n  a look at his touching and fun memoir here<\/a>. But there is something in Spiegelman&#8217;s<br \/>\n  portrayal of his father that rings an eerie bell. The frugality, the directness,<br \/>\n  the aggressive care of both men are striking. Nothing of hesitation or shyness<br \/>\n  in either of these men. And yet at the same time, the shocking tenderness from<br \/>\n  time to time. Can these qualities be attributed, somehow, to the effects of<br \/>\n  living through the twenties, thirties, and forties and surviving despite it<br \/>\n  all? <\/p>\n<p>Or is it just a matter of being in a family and taking what comes with the<br \/>\n  territory? <em>Maus<\/em> raises questions of family dynamics of incredible and<br \/>\n  deep resonance. Spiegelman interweaves tales of marital discord, parental scolding,<br \/>\n  and typical family squabbles with episodes of unspeakable heroism, courage,<br \/>\n  and good and bad fortune. Through it all there is one given: survival. On the<br \/>\n  one hand there is an incredible closeness in this family (all families) that<br \/>\n  allows the most extreme circumstances just to be. It all hangs out there&#8212;in<br \/>\n  &quot;dissolution,&quot; I&#8217;d call it: an agreement to look beyond the unresolved<br \/>\n  matters in a way that is completely natural in families, as it is nowhere else.<br \/>\n  On the other hand, there is the opposite of closeness and tolerance and acceptance,<br \/>\n  for here are people so different, so uninvolved .&nbsp;.&nbsp;. just so very<br \/>\n  different. Part of the magic of <em>Maus<\/em> is its portrayal of two &quot;aliens&quot;<br \/>\n  sharing a space and entering into one another&#8217;s world. The father brings Art<br \/>\n  into his past&#8212;not only the war, but also his youth and life, including<br \/>\n  his early romances, his struggles to establish himself, his rhythms of life.<br \/>\n  And the son attempts to bring the father into the writer&#8217;s\/artist&#8217;s world he<br \/>\n  inhabits. That&#8217;s something I never attempted with my father, and I&#8217;m not sure<br \/>\n  I could, so I envy Spiegelman that expression and honesty.<\/p>\n<p>The depictions of the family ambivalences are not all as poignant and disturbing<br \/>\n  as the heart-wrenching final word of Volume 1. Some of the narration is borderline<br \/>\n  humorous. There is the episode when Art, at the conclusion of one interview<br \/>\n  session can&#8217;t find his coat. We soon find that the father&#8212;who is a renowned<br \/>\n  miser, (a stereotypical Jewish miser, Art fears)&#8212;has thrown out Art&#8217;s<br \/>\n  coat. For the father has (1) bought himself a new coat, (2) decided that Art&#8217;s<br \/>\n  coat was shabby, and (3) decided to give Art his old coat. Art is incredulous:<br \/>\n  &quot;Oh great, a Naugahyde windbreaker!&quot; And here is a case where Spiegelman&#8217;s<br \/>\n  artistic talent comes to the fore: for the depiction of Art\/mouse in the puffy<br \/>\n  jacket conveys the archetypal embarrassment every child has suffered at the<br \/>\n  hands of parents who find ingenious ways to exert control and inflict humiliation.The<br \/>\n  expression on Art&#8217;s face as he walks home, slouched in the puffy jacket (it<br \/>\n  should be noted he is thirty years old at the time), is priceless, as is his<br \/>\n  comment: &quot;I just can&#8217;t believe it.&nbsp;.&nbsp;.&nbsp;.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>In the context of such disbelief and anger and frustration, Spiegelman tells<br \/>\n  his father&#8217;s story. Compassion, awe, and tender love are thrown into the telling<br \/>\n  in a way worthy of the complexity of family life and the suffering of a terrible<br \/>\n  World War. In all, <em>Maus<\/em> is a &quot;survivor&#8217;s tale&quot; that takes<br \/>\n  us into unexpected dimensions of just what survival is. In its seamless interweaving<br \/>\n  of tales&#8212;further complicated by our own connections to them&#8212;we are<br \/>\n  often, like Art himself, left incredulous, but we are grateful for the experience,<br \/>\n  the honesty of it, the reality of it&#8212;all in a comic book about a family<br \/>\n  of mice that escaped the exterminator.<\/p>\n<p><\/body><br \/>\n<\/html><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Untitled Document &quot;Murderer&quot;: A fitting final utterance to Art Spiegelman&#8217;s novel, Maus. All the brutality one expects in a poignant presentation of the Holocaust and Nazi evil is present in this book, this &quot;remarkable work&quot; that Jules Feiffer describes as &quot;awesome in its conception and execution .&nbsp;.&nbsp;. at one and the same time a novel, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/archives\/44\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Difficulty, Toleranance, Love, Survival: Fathers and Sons In, Out, and At War<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-just-life-in-general","category-thoughts-on-teaching-and-learning"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bonadonna.org\/sites\/wordpress\/bonadonna\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}